Friday 1 November 2019

Why Sex is a full-stop for golden-age people?

SEX 😳

Yeah that word definitely catches maximum attention, and now that I have of yours, let me in this blog post talk about bit of a controversial and bit of a taboo topic.

Is Sex important?
Is Sex the only thing in a relationship
Does Sex help improve ones relationship
How satisfying is Sex
Etc Etc Etc.

Well, no am not gonna discuss about any of these here... am no Sex guru.

Let me change course a bit and talk about our parents and grandparents, I call them golden-age
people... people who lost their life-partner, are amongst us and are being made to live as a dependent, debarred from wishes of their own, all in the name of retired life. But in fact they are being made to live a life, which their children and grandchildren want them to lead...why? Why this sudden change, just because now these golden-era people are no longer the earning members or they are not upbeat with so-called changing times and technological advancements? Rubbish (sic).


I say that life begins yet again after 60 or 65 and they should have all the right to live life king/queen size. 

So what if their life-partner could not fulfill their promise and left early. Life is to be lived and if one partner left, then go ahead and find another. And hell no it is nothing to do with love lost for your life-partner, or how can I at this age, or about Sex...well yes it can definitely be for sex too and why not. Till there is breath and body is alive, your pituitary glands working, why suppress that emotion and feeling. I say go ahead and find a new partner who can be your partner for the rest of your life in the form of a spouse or just a live-in companion.

Golden years are more important to have your partner for multiple reasons and why should anyone shy away from living their life. 

You lived your carefree life when you were younger. And as we speak, your children / grandchildren too are defying the laws of society in some way or other. If society allows younger generation to remarry, then why stop for golden-era people.

And who is going to remember and for how long, and how does that affect you by what the other person (family, friends or society) thinks of this equation... I say to hell with it. Just go ahead and enjoy your life, cause this is your life and its just you who will decide what you wish to do or how you wish to lead your life.

Our golden-era people, who are otherwise considered by many as burden (not for all) on younger
generation and are expected to lead a non-entertaining life, taking care of grandchildren, expected to instill values (but not accepted by their own children, calling them old-age value system while the world has changed and they don't know), pray and go on pilgrimages, keep an eye on safeguarding the house etc. Why? Why should they be tied down with these old time thinking.

When silver-haired people are running global countries, then why cant they lead a life of today.

To all our Silver-Haired | Golden Era People... go ahead live your life...stop worrying about others... find a companion...stay with them...travel the world....and yes have sex too with them.


Have Life...Will Live.

1 comment:

  1. Totally Agree!
    However I feel, most of the golden aged people are afraid to take the plunge in their own mind.

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